The Synchronicity of Indeterminacy

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Unfortunately I have bad news to share. My wife was in a car accident today. She is in the hospital under observation. They haven't found anything seriously wrong and she should be home in a few days. Our son was in the car also but not hurt. I will have to postpone writing for now.

45 comments:

Anonymous said...: I'm so sorry Indie! But glad your son is fine and your wife will most probably be o. k.
Thanks for telling us. We hope for the best.; 8:03 PM, August 29, 2007
Lorena's Blogbilingüe said...: Indie,

I'm so sorry to hear about the accident, but relieved that no one is seriously hurt. Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care,

Lorena; 8:44 PM, August 29, 2007
Sara said...: You and your family will certainly be in my prayers.; 9:04 PM, August 29, 2007
The OE said...: We are thankful that things are stabilizing and looking forward to your family's return to normalcy.; 9:15 PM, August 29, 2007
Madeleine said...: sorry to hear that, indie. take care...; 3:31 AM, August 30, 2007
Stan Johns said...: Dear Indie,

Sorry to hear this. Hope all will be OK.

All the best,

Stan; 4:55 AM, August 30, 2007
Frances bo bancess said...: i feel i'd only repeat what others have said. so i'll just have to send chocolates or flowers. thankful no one was seriously hurt.
best wishes; 8:51 AM, August 30, 2007
Doug The Una said...: Indie, that must be terrible for all of you. A speedy recovery to your wife and comfort to you and your son.; 9:27 AM, August 30, 2007
chook said...: Hope all goes well and your wife is back home soon.
Best wishes; 3:16 PM, August 30, 2007
DW2 said...: Indie,
I will keep you & your family in my prayers.; 7:22 PM, August 30, 2007
Anonymous said...: Inde, please keep us posted.

My thoughts are with you and your family.; 8:52 PM, August 30, 2007
sramosobriant said...: So sorry to hear this; we'll be here waiting for news.; 12:52 AM, August 31, 2007
Karishma Hasnat said...: Hope things are fine with you very soon. I wish your wife and son a speedy recovery. Take care!; 3:02 AM, August 31, 2007
Mindful Mimi said...: Indie,
So sorry to hear about the accident. I amm sure things will turn out fine. I am sure you will have lots of stories to write about incompetant doctors/nurses (because it's the hardest thing to have a loved one in the hospital where taking care of him/her is taken out of your hands) and about your reflection on why this happened and what you have learned from it. To me, an accident is always happening to tell you someting. To slow down, to meet certain people or get a certain knowledge about something.
So, take good care of your loved ones and come back soon with your stories.; 5:42 AM, August 31, 2007
Indeterminacy said...: Thank you everyone for the words of comfort. Truth is, these last days have been horrible, but now things are starting to look positive again. My wife had a concussion, and though the scans show no damage, coming out of it has been slower than they'd expected. Today though she was more awake than ever and we could talk with more continuity as well as remember more and more of the days before the accident. I'll start blogging again as soon as I'm mentally able.; 1:38 PM, August 31, 2007
Hobbes said...: Thanks for the update. We have been thinking of you and your family.; 5:22 PM, August 31, 2007
M.P. said...: Hi... Only read about the accident now! Sorry to learn about all that... However there's the good lining coming after such a terrible storm... Hope your wife can recover soon and your son will be as sound as a fiddle quickly! Best wishes!; 5:23 PM, August 31, 2007
My World said...: Family first my friend.... I'm happy to hear things are going well.

You and your family will be in our prayers.....

My World........; 10:02 AM, September 01, 2007
C Merry said...: I am so sorry but I am also glad things are okay and getting better now. I am sorry for not checking in here for a few days. Its all too easy to get caught up with work and other bothersome things that when I read this I realize how stupid those things are. I am so glad your family is safe now, I feel sick I didn't see this before. I get so caught up in other stuff and feel like its all so overwhelming when compared to this is nothing at all. I send my love to your family and to you in this hard time.; 1:02 PM, September 01, 2007
bitterfungus said...: unfortunate to have such a thing happen yet calling for great relief since that no one was injured.
pray that everything will be back to normal as soon as possible.

my regards.; 1:34 PM, September 01, 2007
rev. billy bob gisher ©2008 said...: you have my thoughts. it appears you have been blessed. may the blessings continue.; 2:52 PM, September 01, 2007
Sandy said...: I'm sorry to hear of your accident. I'm glad that everyone will be OK. It is a traumatic experience to go through even when everyone turns out alright. My thoughts are with you.
Sandy; 8:06 PM, September 01, 2007
MyMaracas said...: I'm so sorry to hear about the accident, but it's good to know your family is OK. I hope your wife is home and healthy again soon.

Vicki; 12:07 AM, September 02, 2007
Gone said...: Will br thinking of you and your family, hope all is well as soon as it can be.; 9:10 AM, September 02, 2007
yumen said...: Hello fella,

I hope your wife is recovering well and, when you're ready, you can channel the emotions into some electric tales.

I've just been having a nose around your blog. Congratulations; it's a lovely one, a crisp and lively set you should be proud of. I'll surely be back to read your work.

Yumen; 12:25 PM, September 02, 2007
KHM said...: So sorry for this news; I'm hoping by now she is much improved and your mind is at ease, thinking only of your good fortune that things were not more serious.; 8:21 PM, September 02, 2007
Pam said...: First time I've had a chance to come by and visit your blog in a while and this is what I read?!!

I am sorry to hear about your wife and son. I hope they are OK.

Wishing them well, and you too.

Pam; 1:57 PM, September 03, 2007
Doug The Una said...: I hope things are continuing in the right direction. Be well.; 3:20 PM, September 03, 2007
Acquaintance said...: I'm sorry Indie.; 5:28 PM, September 03, 2007
Indeterminacy said...: Thank you everyone for all the comforting words - it does mean much to me to have so much support. I am sorry that I don't have the energy to answer each message individually.

My muse is making small but sure steps to recovery - it's typical after a shock like she had to remember what's going on around her and the days before the incident. I know all this from my textbook for physiological psychology, which I did an exam in. Yesterday she remembered some of the things we talked about, and had dim recollections of what happened during the day. All positive signs.

Our son, who was in the car too, was completely uninjured and has been very resilient in the face of what must have been a terrible experience. He is handling it better than I am.; 1:25 AM, September 04, 2007
Joey Fanelli said...: I'm really sorry to hear of all this, Indie. I've been out of town all week and didn't read this until just now, such sad, sad news, but if nothing else, at least she's improving.

Stay Strong.; 2:56 AM, September 04, 2007
Ariel the Thief said...: best wishes to your Muse and so brave son! and to yourself, of course. hope things are better with every day.; 4:15 PM, September 04, 2007
Irene Grumman said...: Beaming peace, loving-kindness and healing toward your family and all living things.; 8:58 PM, September 04, 2007
Anonymous said...: Thanks for the update inde. Come back when you can and love to your muse.; 11:35 PM, September 04, 2007
cheesecakeerian said...: I'm sorry to hear about your wife... Hope she's okay.. Take care..; 12:41 AM, September 05, 2007
Ben Latini said...: I've prayed for the cause. I hope that things continue to improve smoothly; 11:34 AM, September 05, 2007
Anonymous said...: I'm sending my best thoughts to you and your family.. I'm glad they're both ok.; 9:22 PM, September 05, 2007
neverenoughtime said...: Oh so sorry to hear this news. I am a regular reader of your blog and it was so shocking to hear this. Bless you and your family. Hang in there...; 9:43 PM, September 05, 2007
{illyria} said...: i'm so sorry this happened, sweetie. but my heart is glad to read your update. take your time coming back. your family needs you so much more. xx.; 4:54 AM, September 07, 2007
Unknown said...: I'm really sorry this happened and embarrassed that I didn't see it and respond sooner. I hope your wife is doing better now and I'm very glad your son wasn't hurt.; 2:18 PM, September 07, 2007
Anonymous said...: Here's sending all my very best to you and your wife, to your family ... we'll keep reading the archives, first things first. I will be thinking of you all as is everyone here... take a break ... animo, amigo.; 4:57 PM, September 08, 2007
Hobbes said...: Hope she is continuing to recover, Indie. Keep us posted when you can.; 10:45 PM, September 08, 2007
Diane Dehler said...: Dear Indie,
I am so sorry to hear of the accident that has injured your wife and happy to read in your latest post that she is improving. Life is so fragile and we easily forget that. Sending positive energy to you and your loved ones.; 3:42 AM, October 15, 2007
Anonymous said...: I'm sorry to hear about your wife... Hope she's okay.. Take care..

Massive Offline; 6:00 AM, October 15, 2007
admin said...: My best wishes for complete recovery. I feel terrible for not having known this for so long. :(; 9:41 PM, October 18, 2007